Hey vibrant souls! How is everyone doing on this beautiful Friday? Something I wanted to so deeply discuss on this blog was overcoming any abuse you may of had in the past. I wanted this platform to show you that you can have the most fun, loving, and colorful life you dreamt about while in a deep state of darkness from any narcissist in your life at the time.
I had two situations with narcissist. One being my parent (s). The other was with a close friend of almost 10 years. I go back and forth with myself on why I would let someone treat me so badly. Why would I call that person a friend.
What people need to remember is that when you have been with a narcissist since you were born, you except more narcissistic people into your life because that is your normal. Being treated badly is your normal.
So what do you do when it’s a friend?
1. Take a step back and look at the whole picture.
Evaluate your life and the people in it. For example, I felt like I couldn’t escape my parent (s) at the time, but I could. Start making baby steps out.
2. Take a deep breath.
If you have a narcissistic friend, chances are you got into many fights with them where they treated you so badly, you yelled to stick up for yourself and then it gets turned around on you. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT SO STOP THINKING THAT WAY. Take a deep breath and meditate.
3. Don’t let them get in your head.
Whatever you do, no matter how hard it is, don’t let them get the best of you. Remove yourself completely from the situation. Even if that means you have to turn off your phone and go stay with other friends for a while just to get away from these peoples.
4. Your emotions and mental help come first.
Your health is number one. Walk away. Make new friends. Make a new family. You can have an amazing life once you start walking away from these people.
Please comment below and let me know if you had any narcissistic friends you had to walk away from.